Yuck, that is an icky feeling huh? I can see how that will effect you and how you will act in future, social situations. It kinda makes you think, if they genuinely cared about you to ask if you were high on drugs or if they were just gossiping about you. They could have brought it up with you, while having coffee or a movie. Instead of asking your husband about you and your private issues. I wouldn't know what to think of it either. I don't like people talking about me doing drugs, especially when I am not using. That is embarrassing. All that hard work, being clean, going out to a party and to have it all flushed down the toilet with one guys negative comments. Don't let it bother you. Go out again and show those people that is who you are, an outgoing person. Let them think your on drugs. You know you're not high and that's all that matters! Your not using.
I had a similar thing happen to me. I was newly sober and we went to an AA meeting with my boyfriends dad. Afterwords, his dad said I was acting weird and asked if I was on drugs. I was so mad. All this time I was clean. It made me want to use and show him what I am really like high, but I didn't. I had my boyfriend call his dad up and tell him that I haven't used at ALL and that I was clean as a whistle. I was sad and mad at the same time.